Complexity meets simplicity..
just like business cycles, so are our emotions. contrary to the economic downturn, it is upward swing for matters of the heart. yes! the season of Love has dawned upon us once again. as the footsteps of Christmas draw nearer, people's hearts are more receptive. that probably explains why you can sniff LOVE all around. as everyone around me starts to pair up, I suppose an alarm bell should start ringing? oh well, let's just say I am a slow cooker in a microwave oven world. I prefer things to go slow and sweet because I believe some things cannot be rushed. it takes time to know a person. what is the point of plunging into a relationship only to get yourself all battered and hurt? when two person get together without much understanding of each other, the feelings wear off once the novelty is passe. unfortunately it is especially so for me. my charm can not sustain the interest of others for long and the affection is usually short-lived. passion can never last for more than three months. is it any wonder that I am beginning to lose faith in the promises of man? of course it does not necessarily apply to man only. woman can say things which they do not mean too. whatever it is, words are nothing without action. increasingly, I am beginning to attest to the fact that all of us are actors in this script we call life.
of course the above are just my two-pence worth of opinion. having said this, I sincerely wish all my friends a blissful relationship. though it is not something I myself advocate of, I do feel happy for them to have found someone worthy to love and be loved. well, things work out differently for people right? I am just an old-fashioned, conservative weirdo who still believes in romantic love stories. (blame it on the japanese dramas i grew up with)
