been missing in action for so long that my absence did not go by unnoticed. i am honored my presence was greatly missed. ^.~
there is something i noticed of late that really bothered me. the Singaporean society seem to be getting 'colder', which reminds me of an advertisement i chanced upon in HK. it was appealing to the masses to be more socially responsible and to engage in kind acts to others. do we have to resort to that to create a society with more warmth? why is it that in our strife to keep pace with technology, we have so mindlessly forsaken our moral values? it is distressing to see the behaviour of people nowadays, with no regard to others around them. yes, they may be strangers but does it hurt to be nice and considerate?
the other day, i witnessed an incident which was really disturbing. was walking past a block of flats when i met a few elderly people gathered at the void deck. there was a rather huge commotion and being the inquisitive me, i 'eavesdropped' on the conversation. not exactly intentional but more of inevitable since it was so loud. there was this man scolding another man while the rest jeered him on. apparently, from the bits and pieces i managed to gather, the man in question was being reprimanded for buying the wrong item from the supermarket. excuse me? if you are so smart, why dont YOU go and get it yourself?! the nasty guy made alot of crude comments which just reflected his egomaniac self. seriously, being of comparable seniority, what position are you in to command and demean another? ultimately, i figured he must be an insecure man. when you bring down another just to make yourself more superior, that is most tragic. whatever self image you had so carefully moulded will be destroyed. when you strip others of their dignity, you have actually taken away whatever self respect you have of yourself. indeed, we are living in a interwoven society where one individual's actions have repercussions on the other. when we keep this in mind, the world may become a better place afterall!