Complexity meets simplicity..
why do people like to say things in the heat of the moment only to regret it later? which do you prefer? to be impetuous or to be clear-headed?i would rather the other person to keep his cool and shut his mouth till he has deliberated the consequences of what is going to come out of his mouth. why so? all because i am a spiteful girl. if you say anything mean to me, i will probably reciprocate with a not-so-polite reply. either that or i will ignore the person completely. no point continuing the conversation as it will just blow up the matter even more. so what if you apologise later? the harm is already done. once, twice, thrice.. eventually it will snowball to a point when the hurt is so great that no amount of apologies can salvage the situation. not that i dont like to talk things out. in fact i believe it is better to talk things out than to keep it to myself. i will probably explode with so much unhappiness kept inside. the key is to say things out nicely and not in an accusatory manner. what else do you expect when the person had already expressed his remorse? am i angry? nope. just disappointed. i admit i am a difficult woman to please. at least i am truthful about it. lol
i must be addicted to shopping. i actually bought 3 pairs of shoes in 2 days?! not forgetting i still have 3 new pairs in the shoe cabinet. i really really am not going to shop anymore! (perhaps just window-shopping?)
looming dark clouds, greyish sky and choppy sea signal another day of heavy rain..
