Complexity meets simplicity..
i dont really know what to blog and i'm not exactly in the mood. thanks to somebody. oh! it's Halloween today! so i shall not talk about depressing stuff in this entry. Happy tricking or treating!! oh. treat me if you want but dont trick me k? haha.
oh ya. congrats to mr choi who managed to win my sister's heart after so many months. perseverance does pay off! though i'm not sure if they'll last cos like they say, it's only a fling. but their notion of fling is greatly mis-interpreted. to them, their relationship is to be kept under wraps (though they cant escape my infallible observation powers! wahaha) so i told my sis it is more like an 'underground' relationship rather than a fling cos the latter is usually short-lived and not a serious one. obviously this does not apply in their case since the guy was willing to spend so much time and effort in gaining my sis' acceptance. kudos to him cos there aren't many guys like him any more.
brings me to the issue of playing hard to get.
guys always say girls like to play hard to get. hang themself up and pretend to be highly sought after (literal translation from chinese). i beg to differ. just because a girl does not accept a guy's courtship immediately does not translate to being difficult to please. more often than not, it is a girl's way of testing the guy. to see if he has the determination. if he cannot even bother himself to put in effort during the wooing period, what more when they are together. anyway, 1 month is not a long time ok? love is not instant though we live in a world that demands efficiency. but can i reiterate once more, what comes fast ends fast too. you cannot treat love like instant noodles or any instant mix in the market. instead, it is like a stew. the more ingredients you put in and the longer you spend cooking, it will bring out the goodness and sweetness(ok. it sounds like love is so yummy. oops..) isnt there a saying: the best things are worth waiting for. i guess it doesnt really apply in our society now? anyway, i'm just being too idealistic. my sister keep telling me that guys/ makeup are totally different from girls and what i ask for only happens in ou xiang ju. why?! i used to believe there's a guy out there who will treat me nice and good. but now.. the bubble seems to be bursting..
