Complexity meets simplicity..
i was talking to kelvin the other night. n we got to talk about touchy guys cos of some encounters i have. ok. my definition of touchy guys: guys who cannot keep their hands to themselves (it doesnt have to be sensitive body parts of the girls but merely hands, shoulders etc) n so i told him it's common for guys nowadays to behave like this (even on first date) cos they r supposedly metrosexual n more in-touch with their feminine side. but still, i feel that there should still be a safe distance btwn guys n girls esp the first few times they go out together. alright. call me conservative (yes! i'm proud to be one!) at least kelvin agreed with me (old age guy as i called him). his view is that touchy guys have no respect for themselves n the girl (that's true in a way) well.. no matter how friendly u r, u dont go around putting ur arms around other girls or grabbing their hands right? those r reserved for when u know each othe better n r on closer terms. unless u think the girl is loose then u'll be this intimate with a stranger.. but occasional taps (means u dont put ur hand there with no intention of retracting it back) on the shoulder and mild pushing around will be acceptable cos i think it's just playful acts. sadly, increasing guys nowadays have no sense of propriety n they do not share the same viewpoint as me.
i saw the date n i found it quite familiar. is it someone's birthday? n finally, after 5 minutes, it dawned on me. it'll be 'our' 1 year anniversary (that is if we r still together). haha. some things r not worth remembering. oops!
am i becoming a habitual cougher? as in i cough bcos it's become a habit. that's what my colleagues said. the day when i stop coughing will be a miracle. duh.. then miracles happen too easily liao. anyway kelvin was telling me since the first day he met me i've been coughing. lol. i'm surprised he still remembers where we went the first time we met up.
