5 signs u r in a potentially abusive relationship:
1. Jealousy - excessive jealousy
2. Controlling behaviour - wanna know where u r all the time, decide what u eat, what u wear..
3. Verbal abuse - degrading n hurtful words
4. Threats to u or ur family
5. Isolation - deprive u of spending time wid family n frenz
Taken from vernetta of class 95. i guess 3,4,5 are kind of obvious. hmmx.. 1 n 2 r more subtle.. so advice to gers out there: try to end it while it's still early.