i guess there r guys who make good bf around afterall.. perhaps 1 in a 1000? hmmx.. wat constitutes a good bf u may wonder.. well.. in my humble opinion.. he must meet the following
1. dote his gf. doesnt mean hafta lavish gifts on her everydae.. but at least once a month.. dat's not too much to ask for rite? in the non-material aspect, i guess it will be words of care n concern.. n i believe those spoken straight from the mouth will sound more sincere than over the fone n worse till over the sms.. sms alrite but sometimes juz reading it n not hearing it doesnt offer much comfort..
2. exudes gentlemanly behaviour. holds the door for her, helps to carry heavy stuff but dat doesnt mean lady's handbag.. n most importantly send her home. regardless of how out of the way it is.. sadly.. it seems like guys nowadaes no longer does dat.. from wat i observed of my frenz.. sigh..
but well.. all's not lost yet.. cos i've found at least a guy who meets the above criteria.. so perhaps there's still a minority of these ppl yet to be uncovered. my bro-in law's bro is a classic example. he dotes on his gf n alwaes send her home.. even when they r at his house, he makes it a point to send her home.. unlike other guys who will juz ask u to make ur own way home..
but well.. i wonder when will i find one hu treats mi rite? sigh..